Month: Dec 2021
Attachment Styles in Relationships
Hazan & Shaver[1] have identified four intimate adult attachment styles. It can be helpful to relate this to ourselves and our partner when there’s been betrayal or a breach of trust.
The four attachment styles are: secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant and fearful-avoidant.
They can be described as follows:
1. Securely attached: These adult partners will generally be trusting, trustworthy, available to their partner, and have a balanced healthy self-esteem. Generally, they do not fear abandonment, don’t expect to be rejected, or fear they might lose love. Thus, they accept, and are comfortable with, themselves, and they let their partner be themselves as well. They view themselves and their partner in a realistic way, and are optimistic about the life they share. Finally, they are able to balance their need for independence with a healthy need for intimacy.
2. Anxious-preoccupied: These partners worry that their partners will abandon or…
View original post 340 more words
The Great Awakening
Deuteronomy 34:1-8 New International Version – UK
The death of Moses
34 Then Moses climbed Mount Nebo from the plains of Moab to the top of Pisgah, opposite Jericho. There the Lord showed him the whole land – from Gilead to Dan, 2 all of Naphtali, the territory of Ephraim and Manasseh, all the land of Judah as far as the Mediterranean Sea, 3 the Negev and the whole region from the Valley of Jericho, the City of Palms, as far as Zoar. 4 Then the Lord said to him, ‘This is the land I promised on oath to Abraham, Isaac and Jacob when I said, “I will give it to your descendants.” I have let you see it with your eyes, but you will not cross over into it.’
5 And Moses the servant of the Lord died there in Moab, as the Lord had said. 6 He buried him[a] in Moab, in the valley opposite Beth Peor, but to this day no one knows where his grave is. 7 Moses was a hundred and twenty years old when he died, yet his eyes were not weak nor his strength gone. 8 The Israelites grieved for Moses in the plains of Moab thirty days, until the time of weeping and mourning was over.
Lord, pour out Your Spirit
On all the peoples of the earth
Let Your sons and daughters
Speak Your words of prophesy
Send us dreams and visions
Reveal the secret of Your heart
Lord our faith is rising
Let all heaven sound the coming of Your day
There’s gonna be a great awakening
There’s gonna be a great revival in our
land
There’s gonna be a great awakening
And everyone who calls on Jesus
They will be saved
Lord, pour out Your Spirit
On all the nations of the world
Let them see Your glory
Let them fall in reverent awe
Show Your mighty power
Shake the heavens and the earth
Lord, the world is waiting
Let creation see the coming of Your day
There’s gonna be a great awakening
There’s gonna be a great revival in our
land
There’s gonna be a great awakening
And everyone who calls on Jesus
They will be saved
There’s gonna be a great awakening
There’s gonna be a great revival in our
land
There’s gonna be a great awakening
And everyone who calls on Jesus
They will be saved
There’s gonna be a great awakening
There’s gonna be a great revival in our land
There’s gonna be a great awakening
And everyone who calls on Jesus
They will be saved
There’s gonna be a great awakening
There’s gonna be a great revival in our
land
There’s gonna be a great awakening
And everyone who calls on Jesus
They will be saved
My Law School Gist
Ehhhhhhhmmmmm lets End the year with my Law school gist🤭🤭
So let me gist you guys about one lady like that…So you never know lawyers can pray until Bar finals show up…. after resuming from the long Covid-19 break to news that exams were a month away with only 3 months of lectures and almost not effective few months online lectures with 20 broad topics to read in each course. That’s about 100 topics to read on your own and understand within a month….going to the revision class was like going to remind yourself how much you don’t know🙃🙃 and we all know there are always people who are ever ready ( probably those who read or attended tutorial during the lockdown) and the would-be quoting sections from laws you never heard about🤦🏾♀️ and people like Mrs. Egbe would be like “If you don’t know this one at this time…
View original post 714 more words
Wednesday’s Wisdom
WOTDC: Bubbly
Science + Spirituality
Anne Frank Quotes
Where there’s hope, there’s life.
Look at how a single candle can both defy and define the darkness.
2022 is the Year of The Lovers
In Numerology the Tarot Card representing the year 2022 is:
‘The Lovers’
Key 6:
The Message: Love Relationships. Partnerships. Family. Co-operation.
What could make you feel more connected and loved by your partner?
‘Partnership is giving, taking, learning, teaching, offering the greatest possible benefit while doing the least possible harm.’― Octavia E. Butler,
The Lovers are an obvious reference to partnership and marriage. encompassing all pairs of opposites: Male and female. It is the self, independence and unity.
But it is not just about physical relationships but about the inner synthesis, between opposites, that has to occur before it happens with another being.
Balanced relationships or enlightened ones, come when first we love ourselves and act, at all times, as integrated and whole beings, for it is by acquiring perfect equilibrium and inner unity, that we can truly merge with another with integrity…
View original post 167 more words
Christian Devotions 